Simple Questions to Ask Yourself When You Reach Thirty

You may have tried your best to brush aside the reality several times. Nevertheless, it will look into your eyes. You have turned thirty and feel uneasy with advancing age. The good news is that your years ahead can be more fun if you can take a constructive look at the years that have gone by. The whimsies of the twenties have vanished by now and a certain soothing ness of maturity has filled in. The beauty of the age thirty is that it inspires you to take things realistically while having a taste for the youthful and the interesting. Slow down a bit and ask yourself some relevant questions to clarify your position in life:

 

Where do you stand on the financial ladder?

 

Have you become financially independent? Have you found the means of a steady livelihood and do you like it?

Having positive answers to these queries means your life has stability and is less prone to distractions. However, having negative answers may not invariably mean you are down and out. With the right outlook and plans, you can settle the financial front. If you are not settled by thirty in terms of finance then wait a while to look back and find out what went wrong.

 

Is discipline part of your life?

 

You may have figured out discipline as the most important attribute for success in life. The more you lived a disciplined life in the past the more the chances that you’ll be at an advantage by thirty. Discipline makes or breaks a person. It is truly decisive in creating a difference in the lives of people.

 

Are you in the right profession?

 

Being involved in the right profession and getting scopes to hone your innermost talents will give you much satisfaction. On the other hand if you are doing it just for a living and life gets tiresome, then there is a thought to make life work in another way so that you do not have to survive on a wrong choice.

Your life at thirty is an expression of the choices you have made so far. A life path consciously chosen based on abilities is far greater than having a lucrative career which contradicts your nature. Having embarked on the career path the most easily sacrificed aspect is value judgment. A career in tune with one’s value judgment and in harmony with one’s nature acts like a boon. reinvented once again for full enjoyment and harmonious living. Harmony in life has an everlasting appeal.  

 

Are you aware of the long term goals?

 

As you have advanced in life, it has become easier for you to forgo short term options for a greater perspective. This is a time when only genuine interests in life should be entertained and the less important ideas have to be relaxed. While steadily holding your interests throughout a lifetime full of determination, you also need to practice some amount of detachment. This is a time when you cannot afford to take every success or failure personally. Having a rational bent of mind, strong faculty of judgment and determination to work hard will help more than keeping focus on the result . Stop getting overwhelmed by other’s accomplishments and cultivate the patience to carry on with full concentration. This is the best time to change and see the effect if the need arise. Life is always throwing cues only if you have the mind to notice.